# Qualified Referral > A qualified referral is a referred person who completes the action your program counts as success. Learn how to define it, track it, and reward it. - URL: https://growsurf.com/glossary/qualified-referral/ --- [← View All Terms](/glossary/) A qualified referral is a referred person who has completed the action a referral program counts as success, such as a purchase, a paid subscription, or a booked demo. Until that action happens, the referral is only a lead. Most referral programs do not pay the moment someone clicks a [referral link](/glossary/referral-link/). They pay when the referred person does something valuable. The qualified referral is that moment, and defining it well is the difference between a program that drives revenue and one that pays for signups that never convert. ### Lead vs. Qualified Referral A referral moves through two stages: 1. **Lead:** The referred person signs up, claims an offer, or submits their email through the referrer's link. The referrer gets credit for bringing them in. 2. **Qualified referral:** The referred person completes the qualifying action. The referral is now counted, and the reward is earned. Separating the two protects you from paying for empty signups and from most [referral fraud](/glossary/referral-fraud/), since fake accounts rarely make it past a purchase. ### Common Qualifying Actions | Business | Typical qualifying action | | --- | --- | | SaaS | Upgrades to a paid plan, or stays active for 14 or 30 days | | Ecommerce | First order ships, or the return window closes | | Fintech | Account funded or first transaction completed | | B2B services | Demo attended or contract signed | | Mobile apps | Reaches an activation event, such as completing a first workout | | Marketplaces | Completes a first booking or sale | ### Choosing the Right Action - **Close to revenue, but reachable.** "Becomes a paying customer" is ideal. "Renews for a second year" is too far away to motivate anyone. - **Verifiable automatically.** Pick an event your billing system or product already records, so referrals qualify without manual review. - **Time-bound.** Decide how long a lead can stay pending before it expires. - **Stated plainly.** Referrers should know exactly what their friend must do. "Get $50 when your friend subscribes" is clear; "when your friend joins" is not. ### Rewarding Both Moments Some programs pay a small reward at signup and a larger one when the referral qualifies. Affiliate programs do the same with a fixed lead commission for each qualified signup and a sale commission when the deal closes. Paying twice keeps referrers engaged through a long sales cycle without paying full price for leads that never convert. ### Holding Periods Even a qualified referral can be reversed by a refund or chargeback. Hold the reward for the length of your refund window before releasing it, and show the referrer that the reward is pending rather than hiding it. ## Related Terms [Referral Conversion Rate The referral conversion rate is the percentage of referred prospects who complete a desired action, such as signing up, making a purchase,…](/glossary/referral-conversion-rate/) [Referral Attribution Referral attribution is the process of identifying and crediting the specific referrer responsible for bringing in a new customer,…](/glossary/referral-attribution/) [Referral Tracking Referral tracking is the process of monitoring and attributing customer referrals from the initial share through conversion, using…](/glossary/referral-tracking/) [Referral Reward A referral reward is the benefit delivered to a participant upon successfully referring a new customer. It is the fulfillment of the…](/glossary/referral-reward/) [Cost Per Lead Cost per lead (CPL) is a pricing model where the advertiser pays the affiliate a set amount for each qualified lead generated, such as a…](/glossary/cost-per-lead/) ## How GrowSurf Helps GrowSurf lets you decide what qualifies a referral for each program: a sign-up alone, or a sign-up plus a qualifying action such as a purchase or subscription. You trigger the qualifying action with a single JavaScript call, through the REST API, or automatically from Stripe, PayPal, Recurly, Chargebee, Zapier, or webhooks. An API-triggered referral can be held for up to 90 days to wait out your refund policy, and a delayed trigger can be cancelled if the customer backs out. Every reward picks the moment it pays: referred signup or qualifying action. Affiliate fixed commissions choose lead or sale, and you can run both on the same program, paying $5 when someone books a demo and $200 when they convert. Your dashboard separates leads from credited referrals so you always know how many are still pending, and GrowSurf's fraud checks run before any referral is credited. ## Related Blog Posts ### [4 Ways You Can Set Up Referral Tracking Today](/blog/referral-tracking-guide/) Referral tracking is the cornerstone of every successful referral program so it's important to plan out and set up, either manually or with referral software. ### [What's a Good Referral Rate? Referral Program Benchmarks](/blog/good-referral-rate/) Do you know what's a good referral rate for your industry? Read on and learn all about referral rates and incredibly easy strategies to increase them. ### [4 Powerful Ways to Optimize Your Referral Program](/blog/optimize-referral-program/) While referral programs are an effective way to promote your products and services, they’re not always easy to optimize. Here are 4 powerful ways to optimize your referral program. ## FAQ #### What counts as a qualified referral? Whatever action your program defines as success: a paid subscription, a first order, a funded account, a booked demo. The referred person must complete that action before the referral counts and the reward is earned. #### Should I reward signups or only qualified referrals? Reward the qualifying action, or pay a small amount at signup and the larger amount at qualification. Rewarding signups alone invites fake accounts and pays for people who never become customers. #### What is the difference between a lead and a referral? A lead has signed up through a referral link but has not yet done the qualifying action. A referral, or qualified referral, has completed it. Programs typically report both numbers separately. #### How long should a referral stay pending? Long enough to cover your refund or cancellation window, commonly 14 to 60 days. After that, either the referral qualifies and the reward is released, or it expires. ## Unlock the power of word-of-mouth marketing and deepen your bond with customers Set up your refer a friend program with customer referral and affiliate program software that lowers your acquisition costs, increases customer loyalty, and saves you gobs of time. [Launch Your Program](https://app.growsurf.com/signup) 14 day free trial No credit card required Trusted by marketing and product teams that grow through customer, user, and partner referrals. ## Built for lean teams, scaled for category leaders Successfully submitted! Error! Please try again